Essay/Term paper: Bdsm

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BDSM


BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline Sadism and Masochism. Most regard
this as a perverted form of sexuality limited only to gays who they also regard
as perverted. This is far from the case, as even the great marquis de Sade was
into this sort of play, and was clearly straight. Whereas there are more
problems involved in BDSM than in Vanilla sex, the form of sexuality called BDSM
is also much more a form requiring trust.,
In a typical scenario, one person in this case i will call the person he,
is a dom. The other (she) is a sub. He will begin by telling she that she must
kneel and present herself. He will then often collar she, tie she up, and then
proceed to spank she torture she and even force sex on she. She wants this
however and is thrilled to be so treated. She also has a safeword which when
said will stop all action. There is a lot of trust needed between he and she
before this action even begins but once begun it is indeed the most erotic
sexuality ever encountered.
Many will say that BDSM stems form a desire to abuse or to rape.
Neithger of these are usually true. The need is for control or to be controlled
and that is what is found in BDSM. Although the horror stories are the ones
which are often shown in the news, in fact the successes in BDSM are far greater.
In short BDSM is normal, and is worthwhile as well. Try it you might like it.